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When Someone Dies

What to do when someone dies at home 

If someone dies at home you should first call their doctor (GP), they will issues a medical cause of death certificate For more information click here 

Sudden or unexpected death

When somebody has died unexpectedly or the doctor does not know the cause of death, the case will often be referred to the coroners office.

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Death in professional care

The hospital bereavement will help with support and advice on what to do next

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Dying abroad 

Repatriation to and from the UK 

As a funeral director based in the UK we will work with you, the oversees funeral director and British Consulate oe Embassy to receive the deceased to the UK.

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Once the medical cause of death certificate has been completed, you should register the person's death, usually at the registry office closest to the place of passing. Please note, you will need to book an appointment with the registry office.

Once you have registered the death, we will be able to help, advise and guide you, you can also follow the government step by step guide 

Wise words. I think originally written by Sarah Kerr - The Centre for Sacred Deathcare


Expected Death ~ When someone dies, the first thing to do is nothing. Don't run out and call the nurse. Don't pick up the phone. Take a deep breath and be present to the magnitude of the moment.


There's a grace to being at the bedside of someone you love as they make their transition out of this world. At the moment they take their last breath, there's an incredible sacredness in the space. The veil between the worlds opens.


We're so unprepared and untrained in how to deal with death that sometimes a kind of panic response kicks in. "They're dead!"


We knew they were going to die, so their being dead is not a surprise. It's not a problem to be solved. It's very sad, but it's not cause to panic.


If anything, their death is cause to take a deep breath, to stop, and be really present to what's happening. If you're at home, maybe put on the kettle and make a cup of tea.


Sit at the bedside and just be present to the experience in the room. What's happening for you? What might be happening for them? What other presences are here that might be supporting them on their way? Tune into all the beauty and magic.


Pausing gives your soul a chance to adjust, because no matter how prepared we are, a death is still a shock. If we kick right into "do" mode, and call 911, or call the hospice, we never get a chance to absorb the enormity of the event.


Give yourself five minutes or 10 minutes, or 15 minutes just to be. You'll never get that time back again if you don't take it now.


After that, do the smallest thing you can. Call the one person who needs to be called. Engage whatever systems need to be engaged, but engage them at the very most minimal level. Move really, really, really, slowly, because this is a period where it's easy for body and soul to get separated.


Our bodies can gallop forwards, but sometimes our souls haven't caught up. If you have an opportunity to be quiet and be present, take it. Accept and acclimatize and adjust to what's happening. Then, as the train starts rolling, and all the things that happen after a death kick in, you'll be better prepared.


You won't get a chance to catch your breath later on. You need to do it now.


Being present in the moments after death is an incredible gift to yourself, it's a gift to the people you're with, and it's a gift to the person who's just died. They're just a hair's breath away. They're just starting their new journey in the world without a body. If you keep a calm space around their body, and in the room, they're launched in a more beautiful way. It's a service to both sides of the veil .

Brooks Funeral Directors Independent Funeral Services in London Incorporating BB Funerals
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